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Mars and Venus Starting Over
This book has been translated by Dar Al Amal Publishing House
Is it possible to find love again after a breakup, death, or divorce?
At the end of a relationship, it can sometimes feel like the end of the world.
Devastation, loneliness, and bitterness are some emotions that exist due to a breakup, divorce, or the loss of a loved one.
But with the help of this compassionate guide, Dr. John Gray expresses that you will survive and tells you how to find love again.
While the process of healing is similar with both sexes, there are distinct differences between the ways men and women heal their bruised hearts.
In Mars and Venus Starting Over, Dr. Gray offers gender-specific advice on how to:
Deal with pain
Find forgiveness
Discover the strength to let go
Rebuild confidence
Rise to the challenge of finding fulfillment again
Filled with gentle guidance, healing practices, and compassionate wisdom, Mars and Venus Starting Over will help men and women explore the meaning of loss, find their way through the healing process, and discover the secret to moving on.
A breakup, divorce, or loss of a loved one isn’t just the end of your relationship with that person. It’s a continuation of every feeling of abandonment you’ve ever suffered.
It’s the loss of a system of approval you’d come to depend on.
The struggle, as Gray points out in Starting Over, isn’t just to find a new partner, but to get over those feelings of abandonment or loss or anger or whatever else gets dredged up by the end of a relationship.
Perhaps the book’s most crucial chapter posits that the best way to get over the loss of love is to focus on the “love” more than the “loss.” That may seem impossible, especially if the bum took off with your best friend, your life savings, and your Lyle Lovett CDs, but Gray didn’t get to be a household name because the advice in his Venus and Mars books doesn’t work. Remembering only the bad parts, Gray says, leaves you with an important part of your emotional being closed to new business.
As for the Venus and Mars stuff, that comes in the second half of the book, when Gray looks at how men and women start new relationships from different points of view, with different priorities (a man might want to have fun with no strings attached; a woman might carry with her a lengthy list of requirements for her next partner, a list that excludes virtually all available men).
If you’ve never read Gray’s work before, you have to be prepared to check your cynicism at the door. This is earnest stuff, but it’s also based on decades of experience counseling clients.
He’s not one of those photogenic, nine-times-divorced shrinklets who’s telling you how to conduct your relationships without any real clue of what makes love last.
This is the real package: nothing glib, nothing quick and easy, nothing you could’ve figured out from a “Love Is…” cartoon.
Mars and Venus Starting Over
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