Description
This book has been translated by jarir book store
You think of yourself as a nice person. And so many of the nice things you do cause you burnout, bottle you up and leave you feeling unsatisfied.
In this book the author nails nine counterproductive mistakes nice people make all the time. Look at the book’s Contents page that lists them, and see if they don’t make you feel like you’re looking in a mirror!
This book will show you how to correct these mistakes and behave in ways that will help you avoid stress, frustration and embarrassment. You quite quickly will learn how to:
— Let go of your need to be perfect and please everyone all the time.
— Say “no” to requests for your skills, energy and time, and feel great doing so.
— Tell others directly what you want from them, and actually receive it.
— Express anger without blowing up and harming your valued relationships
— Disarm those who wrongly or irrationally criticize or attack you.
— Be both honest with, and gracious toward, those who fail or disappoint you.
— Cease giving advice to others and feel good simply giving them information.
— Be genuinely helpful to addicted loved ones, rather than try to rescue them.
— Stop attempting to protect those in grief and begin supporting them.
This remarkable book will empower you to make these changes and liberate you for a richer more enjoyable life … and you still will be a nice person!